Rain pours upon me full force as I traipse to the deli to
buy a pound of pastrami and a loaf of rye. My socks are wet inside my sneakers;
should I have worn boots—in May?
Four blocks later I slosh into the subway, ride to Penn
Station, sit and wait for the train to Dover. Asking for our tickets, a
policeman explains, “Only ticketed passengers are permitted a seat.” One man presents a valid ticket purchased in April
for
Trenton. Loudly, the officer makes him leave, embarrassing him, telling him to
pick up trash. This feels like harassment.
Policemen have the knack of intimidating people. Although I feel sorry for the man and I resent the tone of voice, too loud, and the way he addressed the man, I cannot speak up in his defense. I feel today as those who get stopped and frisked feel when they've done no wrong. It is how they look that sets them apart for disrespectful treatment from those who would protect us from harm. Who is 'us,' who is 'them'? Did the officer ask all of us in the row of seats for our tickets because he was suspicious of this man? I will never know.
As a teen, we used to snag our stockings on the then straw
seats on the train we called the Delay, Linger and Wait. I forget what the D, L
and W stood for originally, but I ‘wikied’ it as I write this now. The Delaware,
Lackawanna and Western Railroad- I don’t think I ever knew it. Then and now it
takes me where I need to go.
It is good to keep in touch with Bob’s best friend for more
than fifty years; they have been my friends for the past 22 years as well. Too
much loss too quickly is too hard for me to process, just as Bob’s illness is impossible
for Eliot to manage. We all want Bob to be who he once was; we miss his
knowledge, his concern, and his generosity for his friends and coworkers. Most
of all we miss his companionship.
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